Post by psisar on Feb 5, 2005 9:17:17 GMT -5
This post has nothing to do with DDR, so I dont even know if I should be posting it... I know I'm new and all but it's 9 am, I'm hungover and I really, really need to vent about some stuff.
I've been seeing a guy for the past 3 weeks... last night he invited me to a party (only like 15 people were there) and he was the only person I knew there. The whole night he was hitting on his ex girlfriend. Him and I have been friends for months now, but just started dating. Anyways we would start dancing, then he would tell me to 'hold on for a minute' so he can go talk to his ex. He did this like 5 times so I was thinking OK, he obviously doesn't want to be with me so I'll just leave. It's not like I knew anyone else there.
So I called a cab and told him I was leaving. He got all upset and begged me to stay. He told me he did really like me, and that he wouldn't have gotten involved with me if he didn't, yadda yadda. The guy goes on for half an hour begging me to stay, so I stayed. I made it perfectly clear to him I was staying to be with him, obviously, since I knew no one else there. I had been talking with a few people, but on a friendship level I didn't know anyone else. So what happens? We start dancing, and he ditches me for his ex, again. Five minutes later I turn around and there's the two of them, kissing and being all intimate right in front of me. I couldn't take it. I bolted, called a cab and went home without saying goodbye.
Some things I want to clairify... he's moving a few provinces away in about a month. I understand that. We had kind of come to an agreement that we would just have fun together while he was still around, since he 'liked me so much' and all. I would also understand if he changed his mind and wanted to be with someone else before he left. The thing I don't get is the FRIGGIN' MIND GAMES. I don't have time for guys to lead me on for absolutely no reason. I would have been okay with everything if he had just been straight with me. But asking me to come to the party in the first place, telling me how wonderful I am between grinding sessions with his ex, begging me to stay when I try to leave... I don't get it. Either he wants me or he doesn't, but I don't have the time to sit around and wait for him to figure it out... hurting me in the process.
We've been friends longer than we've been dating, and the past few weeks we've gotten really close. I just can't take being jerked around like that.
Anyways thanks for reading... I don't know how much sense everything made because I am hungover, if not still drunk. Ha. Ha. But yea I just needed to vent... and I do feel a bit better now
I've been seeing a guy for the past 3 weeks... last night he invited me to a party (only like 15 people were there) and he was the only person I knew there. The whole night he was hitting on his ex girlfriend. Him and I have been friends for months now, but just started dating. Anyways we would start dancing, then he would tell me to 'hold on for a minute' so he can go talk to his ex. He did this like 5 times so I was thinking OK, he obviously doesn't want to be with me so I'll just leave. It's not like I knew anyone else there.
So I called a cab and told him I was leaving. He got all upset and begged me to stay. He told me he did really like me, and that he wouldn't have gotten involved with me if he didn't, yadda yadda. The guy goes on for half an hour begging me to stay, so I stayed. I made it perfectly clear to him I was staying to be with him, obviously, since I knew no one else there. I had been talking with a few people, but on a friendship level I didn't know anyone else. So what happens? We start dancing, and he ditches me for his ex, again. Five minutes later I turn around and there's the two of them, kissing and being all intimate right in front of me. I couldn't take it. I bolted, called a cab and went home without saying goodbye.
Some things I want to clairify... he's moving a few provinces away in about a month. I understand that. We had kind of come to an agreement that we would just have fun together while he was still around, since he 'liked me so much' and all. I would also understand if he changed his mind and wanted to be with someone else before he left. The thing I don't get is the FRIGGIN' MIND GAMES. I don't have time for guys to lead me on for absolutely no reason. I would have been okay with everything if he had just been straight with me. But asking me to come to the party in the first place, telling me how wonderful I am between grinding sessions with his ex, begging me to stay when I try to leave... I don't get it. Either he wants me or he doesn't, but I don't have the time to sit around and wait for him to figure it out... hurting me in the process.
We've been friends longer than we've been dating, and the past few weeks we've gotten really close. I just can't take being jerked around like that.
Anyways thanks for reading... I don't know how much sense everything made because I am hungover, if not still drunk. Ha. Ha. But yea I just needed to vent... and I do feel a bit better now
i know you can pull through this