Paranoia

[miyew]

Ok, just need to rant and stuff *nods*

Now, Im really self-conscious about my weight and Im really worried that if I get any fatter my boyfriend will just be like ewwww. I know, it sounds really shallow and stuff but Im scared of losing him. Theres this other girl too, I know that before we were going out he really really liked her but then he stopped liking her and asked me out but they are still good friends. I really don't like her purely because she hurt him in the past and 'cause Im jealous.
He gets to see her more often then he gets to see me and Im just so worried that one day he's just gonna dump me for her because she is slim and prettier then me. I know it sounds stupid and that he loves me for who I am not what I look like but I can't help but think that he might get really repulsed by my weight or something. Ok so we've been going out for 7 months now and I haven't put much weight on but what if i do? I mean, sure Im trying to lose it now but what if it doesn't work?

haha. Ok. Im crazy and paranoid. Thanks for reading.

[iamjay]

Since this is a DDR Board, And usually we give out DDR Answers, I say.. Play some DDR. I lost 8 pounds in 2 weeks just to keep my girl happy. she left me and now i'm 8 pounds lighter if anything I happy.

[abrannan]

Let me give you the best relationship advice I've ever been given. Talk. Be open and honest with him. Listen to what he has to say. Trust him, and ask that he trust you as well. I'm not going to say that this is a guaranteed way to keep the two of you together, but it's the best way to be in a relationship in the long run.

[SSC]

If you love each other, but he can't see past physical attributes to be tempted by another, how worth it is he? I guess I don't know him, so I can't say myself.