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Post by iamjay on Sept 20, 2004 16:35:43 GMT -5
This girl I met from midnightmadness in my town about a month ago the night ended with us two together on the couch her in my arms. the nxt time she came over she was surrounding my friend like crazy she stayed with him the whole night so i said @$!^ it and went to bed early. I was dissapointed and jealous. I found out afterwards by her that it didn't mean anything since she was drunk and all that (yeah rite) we hung out a few more times afterwards and she would hang off my arm, but when my friends were around she would talk to them and all that. Last sat. I tried to my arms around her and she didn't want to come over cause there wasn't enough room or something (it could of been tru we were at the park in a lil area with me my friend (that she cuddled with last month) and her friend. After that happened I got mad and said $crew this i'm hitting on her friend. 20min later I took her to the rocks and I was really attached to her, then I invited her to the house and we cuddled some more then we got on the floor and made out and stuff and went to bed. I think that really made her jealous since she was trying to rest her arm on me the nxt morning and I sorta just shifted away. we hung out the whole day and all she did was walk with my friend and on the car ride back I tried to get sleep and she was trying to put her head on me again but it never happened. now the question is, why the heck are we playing these games. What should I do, I dont like her friend I just wanted to get back at her. And I know she doesnt like my friend she just wants to get back at me. HELP ME lol  |
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Post by abrannan on Sept 21, 2004 6:59:48 GMT -5
I'm gonna go out on a limb and say talk to her. I mean really talk to her. Explain how you feel, what you're thinking. Phrase everything in terms of yourself. (i.e. I feel jealous and disappointed when... Instead of, you made me angry when you did this...) Then listen to what she has to say. And I mean really listen, don't interrupt, don't start planning your retort, just take in what she has to say and try to see things from her perspective. Relationships CANNOT survive unless you both are willing to communicate openly and honestly with each other. I speak from experience on this one.
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Post by Laura Moncur on Sept 21, 2004 13:45:28 GMT -5
Good advice, abrannan.
The only thing I would add to it is: make sure the two of you are alone when you talk to her. If you try to do the serious, heart-felt talk in front of her and your friends, it's going to get weird.
You don't want to look like a whipped boy in front of your friends. She doesn't want to look like a dominated girl in front of hers. Plus, everyone will want to put their two cents in because (as you can see) we all have our opinions.
By the way, the whole "I was drunk, so it doesn't matter" thing is just a cop out. When people are drunk, they let themselves do the things that they wouldn't normally allow themselves to do. Sometimes, that means that they talk to the person that they've had a crush on forever. Sometimes, they hit on every person in their path. Don't allow it as an excuse with other people in your life and don't use it as one.
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Post by iamjay on Sept 22, 2004 17:57:42 GMT -5
Lol yeah She invited me to come to the fair with my friends this sat. since she wants to ditch her friends early since she said that they dont like to party all night or something. I can either put myself up to her for grabs again if she doesnt react then i'm soo making out with one of her other friends. or I can just hit on others at the fair. I have no clue what i'm gunna dooo. Ah well i'm happy I got my G2 (drivers licence) today, YAHoo! Yeah I should tell her how I feel but i really dont know what to tell her. I like her but i'm jealous cause she doesnt talk to me when my friends are around but i'm confused cause you only touch me outta everyone else? (by touch i mean my arms and stuff). Yeah anyayz i'm gunna stop %#!@ now lol  |
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Post by Pyrochaos on Sept 23, 2004 11:10:54 GMT -5
Games are pretty much a waste of energy. People only play games because they know something isnt right. You need to make plans with you and her alone. Then talk to her and tell her how you feel. Start having it be just the two of you, and then when things are comfortable, bring friends in.
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Post by Pyrochaos on Sept 23, 2004 11:11:24 GMT -5
^^^^^Does not mean that in a sexual way^^^^
.....or do I?? j/k
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Post by iamjay on Sept 23, 2004 16:57:58 GMT -5
yeah I dunno I'll have to ask her if she saus no then fuck her (not literally, or... literally  lol) |
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Post by SSC on Sept 27, 2004 15:02:13 GMT -5
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Girls can be quite labor intensive, let's leave it at that.
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Post by iamjay on Sept 30, 2004 16:43:43 GMT -5
well last sat. night was a total drag lets leave it to that since i really dont feel like typing the whole thing and now i'm just ignoring her. not her friends though:P and yeah to much a bother, if u dont act desperate you can actually get pretty far |
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Post by Laura Moncur on Oct 1, 2004 11:14:02 GMT -5
Sorry, man...
Maybe she isn't enough for you. Just keep telling yourself,
"I deserve someone who is so in love with me that they would never think of playing games."
You'll get a girl who is so great that you wouldn't think of playing games either.
Keep Dancing!
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Post by iamjay on Oct 1, 2004 15:38:02 GMT -5
lol yeah i've been ignoring her lately. it's all good just have to wait that's all that is  |
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lol)
