Alright, I think I need some advice.

[jonesmeghan]

Well, let me introduce myself. I'm Meghan, I'm 17 from Las Vegas Nevada. I think I weigh about 135, I'm 5'3. I feel big. My legs are big, and I have a lot of stretch marks. I wear a 13 size in Juniors basically. It makes me feel really fat. I think some of my weight is because my breasts are 34D, or maybe DD.

I'd like to weigh about 105, or 110. Is that healthy? And what could I do, to get to that weight, or what are your suggestions on how much weight I should lose to have a flat stomach. Please help, this makes me depressed. I see girls at school with nice flat stomachs and nice legs and it makes me angry. Thank you.

[Manga]

Depends on your body type. Some women are curvy and, y'know what? that's NOT A BAD THING. You mention that you have D, possibly teh dreaded DD, and you only weigh 135? That's not bad, considering.

People come in all shapes and sizes, different forms and all of that. You seriously have VERY little to worry about considering.

But who am I to say? It's not up for me, or us, to decide what is healthy for you. I know girls who are at 150-60 and look fantastic. If you want a real opinion, you can: Post pictures here so there's more info to go off of or go to your doctor.

I personally think being 135 and curvy is not a bad thing. -=shrugs=-

[Pyrochaos]

Voluptuous look is soo much better than the teeny tiny "fragile" look IMO.

[jonesmeghan]

Alright. Here's some pictures. Probably a little too showy, but I don't know what to put, my apologies.

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[xstatic]

okay...... well - @ least you're 17..... because you look like you are like 14 years old and I felt dirty.... so I definetely needed to scope the age factor... So I think you're fine with the pics... there's a disclaimer...

aaaaaanyways - that being said. I think you have very nice legs and very nice breasts, nothing to be worried about. skinny legs aren't nessesarially better, you just seem to be a curvier type and a damn fine looking one @ that. Your theighs don't look out of shape, they seem taught and muscular... (god I'm getting analytical here) Every girl worries about their stomach. I highly doubt you need to even loose 26 lbs to tone down the dreaded pooch....

IMO - you look fine... but also IMO just try out the ddr for a while and see where it takes you.... as long as you are being healthy and doing a proper diet/excercise regiment, you're not going to hurt yourself. good luck.

[SSC]

The weight you are trying to achieve is perfectly healthy, as far as I'm concerned. Just make sure you're dieting right and everything, and you should be in pretty good conditioning. However, don't get discouraged while losing that weight. Losing weight when the amount is that low is pretty difficult... but good luck.

[psisar]

I'm just going to go along with everything xstatic said, she pretty much nailed it.

Keep in mind it's going to take longer to lose weight, since you're starting weight isn't that high (as opposed to someone who is overweight and going on a diet). IMO, you look freakin' hot. As long as you keep up a good diet and exercise and stay healthy, best of luck to ya.

[jonesmeghan]

Alright thanks, I have more pictures, if it helps for any more advice. I'll just stick to diet soda, and green tea... I play DDR and I use an Ab Slide, which last itme I used it it seemed to help, I felt it. I think my legs, I guess are alright. I jsut want to make my stomach flatter. Does anyone know how much breasts weigh by any chance? Just wondering.

And also, is there any good products for stretch marks?

[Grant.]

one girl posted about cocoa butter or something...

[madmegan]

I've tried just about every stretch mark cream and none of them work. I think they just fade and shrink over time and I don't think you can permanenty get rid of them without laser surgery. I have them all over my stomach from having my son, but it was worth it. If I can never wear a two-piece again, so be it!

[xstatic]

I always tell people my breasts weigh 20 lbs each.... yeah.... that's right you heard me... 20 lbs each.

[Pyrochaos]

You are slammin girl!

Come to MN and let Pyro treat you right.

[agent709]

I am like a male version of you. i am constantly thinking about how much fat I have and how I should weigh like 180-185 and not 200. I have plenty stretchies too, and a lot of people do too so don't worry too hard on those. Are you looking to play DDR or just lose the weight in general?

And don't sweat it, I feel fat too, but people say I look just fine... you look just fine too, but wanting to be lean isn't a bad thing

[Manga]

I know this isn't really all that appropriate in such a forum, but... Oh well.


You look good. You've got a but of a stomache? So what, so does everyone. Let me say it again... You look guh-ood.

[agent709]

all i have to say is lol

[Pyrochaos]

Back off manga she's mine!!

lol

[Manga]

If I remember correctly, I post the first message on this forum after her... =P

[abrannan]

Okay you two... She came here for advice and suggestions, not to get hit on. Let's try not to scare her off.

[Pyrochaos]

Sorry manga, I love you.

[Grant.]

ahahahahahahahahahahahaha. isn't she kinda jailbait for you two?